Why we loose friends with time
Hello Everyone
So today i am going to write my blog on truth which is hard to believe but yes it is truth of life i.e Everyone will loose there friends with time. i know it seems to be wired when someone say with time you will loose your friends but its the bitter truth of life.
95 to 98 percent people will disappear from your life,hardly you will be left with one or two in your life.This might also happen that those one or two also not be there.This is the truth of life my friend your parents might told you , your teachers told you that no one stays forever with you you already know this thing.
lets take an example when you are done with your college does everyone get placed?does everyone get job?and those who are placed,Does everyone get placed in same company?
NO!
You can't live your whole life in a single room with those friends.you were in same classroom you were together only because of proximity the distance ,it was not like that you were made to live together throughout the life, its all matter of chance you can or you cannot be.
In this world the only reason why your friendship is so much intact because you have compulsion that you have to meet your friend daily you have to face each other daily ,when there will be no compulsion like that than everyone will go at there own place and than you can't be able to meet so frequently.
when you will not meet quite often then people usually pull themselves away.They will get job somewhere ,it might happen first year you might be in very much touch with them , because you are recently get separated you recently finished your college, you all will be very close to each other will be in touch with your group.
yes you are connected on the social media , you are seeing photos of each other and all stuff like that but now you are not meeting on the daily basis.After 2 years you will be more seperated because there will be many changes in life of you and your friend , as life goes on.Some will be doing further studies some will join MBA some will started doing jobs .People will be scattered to a vast level.Then you will met once in a year with someone , meanwhile the whole year you met new people , you interact with new people around you you start making new friends .Now what is happening is that you are spending your most of time with those new people either at new campus where you are now studing or at your working area where you are doing your job.
So with time new bonds will start developing , you will started having new friends.So definitely if you are living with them sharing same room you will have social life with them.BUT at the same time it doesn't mean that you were meant to be the best friends.So when you will left your job that same rule will be applied to them.
You will be again scattered, there are very less chances that you will again met up at someplace.slowly and slowly people will scatter from your life . Than we plan for meetups , make groups on social websites but with passage of time slowly and slowly see groups also have life , but you will say no our group is best we all are very active, ok then met with the same people after 4 years .see life in little bit long terms then tell me how much close you are with them.
let say now you are of 22-23 so after five years when you will be of 27-28 what will happen some will get married , some will have someone in there life , some will be very much busy in there work,some of them will be facing tragedies in there life you can't anticipate while sitting there what is going to be happen in everyone's life,yes these things happen suddenly people will disappear from your life.
Some of your friends face failure and get too much affected , that they will cut themselves from everyone.people who are very much social nowadays might get disappear in future.After 25 you will be like seeing profile picture of your friend and reminding yourself that we were very close to each other in college and like that , so don't rely on this thing too much .
Friendship is very good at its own place and yes it is a need of an hour also , you must enjoy your life also but don't make friendship basis of your life.Friendship is everything this is the most foolish thing people often say, but what the truth is that friends are one aspect of life.yes one aspect a very important aspect but its just one aspect of life . Life has many aspects and friendship gives meaning to our life cool but remember life has other aspects too.
So if you will reduce all aspects into one aspect then you will definitely suffer very badly in your life.
There are many people in college who are very much funny at that time , but are not being able to do anything in there life further,yes it is story of many.Always keep one thing in mind NEW MEMORIES ALWAYS REPLACE THE OLD ONE.We are human beings who seek fun and entertainment now in present situation, what might had happened in past is now a memory i am not getting happy by only seeing my past memories, we always see how to enjoy in our present situation.
So today i am going to write my blog on truth which is hard to believe but yes it is truth of life i.e Everyone will loose there friends with time. i know it seems to be wired when someone say with time you will loose your friends but its the bitter truth of life.
95 to 98 percent people will disappear from your life,hardly you will be left with one or two in your life.This might also happen that those one or two also not be there.This is the truth of life my friend your parents might told you , your teachers told you that no one stays forever with you you already know this thing.
lets take an example when you are done with your college does everyone get placed?does everyone get job?and those who are placed,Does everyone get placed in same company?
NO!
You can't live your whole life in a single room with those friends.you were in same classroom you were together only because of proximity the distance ,it was not like that you were made to live together throughout the life, its all matter of chance you can or you cannot be.
In this world the only reason why your friendship is so much intact because you have compulsion that you have to meet your friend daily you have to face each other daily ,when there will be no compulsion like that than everyone will go at there own place and than you can't be able to meet so frequently.
when you will not meet quite often then people usually pull themselves away.They will get job somewhere ,it might happen first year you might be in very much touch with them , because you are recently get separated you recently finished your college, you all will be very close to each other will be in touch with your group.
yes you are connected on the social media , you are seeing photos of each other and all stuff like that but now you are not meeting on the daily basis.After 2 years you will be more seperated because there will be many changes in life of you and your friend , as life goes on.Some will be doing further studies some will join MBA some will started doing jobs .People will be scattered to a vast level.Then you will met once in a year with someone , meanwhile the whole year you met new people , you interact with new people around you you start making new friends .Now what is happening is that you are spending your most of time with those new people either at new campus where you are now studing or at your working area where you are doing your job.
So with time new bonds will start developing , you will started having new friends.So definitely if you are living with them sharing same room you will have social life with them.BUT at the same time it doesn't mean that you were meant to be the best friends.So when you will left your job that same rule will be applied to them.
You will be again scattered, there are very less chances that you will again met up at someplace.slowly and slowly people will scatter from your life . Than we plan for meetups , make groups on social websites but with passage of time slowly and slowly see groups also have life , but you will say no our group is best we all are very active, ok then met with the same people after 4 years .see life in little bit long terms then tell me how much close you are with them.
let say now you are of 22-23 so after five years when you will be of 27-28 what will happen some will get married , some will have someone in there life , some will be very much busy in there work,some of them will be facing tragedies in there life you can't anticipate while sitting there what is going to be happen in everyone's life,yes these things happen suddenly people will disappear from your life.
Some of your friends face failure and get too much affected , that they will cut themselves from everyone.people who are very much social nowadays might get disappear in future.After 25 you will be like seeing profile picture of your friend and reminding yourself that we were very close to each other in college and like that , so don't rely on this thing too much .
Friendship is very good at its own place and yes it is a need of an hour also , you must enjoy your life also but don't make friendship basis of your life.Friendship is everything this is the most foolish thing people often say, but what the truth is that friends are one aspect of life.yes one aspect a very important aspect but its just one aspect of life . Life has many aspects and friendship gives meaning to our life cool but remember life has other aspects too.
So if you will reduce all aspects into one aspect then you will definitely suffer very badly in your life.
There are many people in college who are very much funny at that time , but are not being able to do anything in there life further,yes it is story of many.Always keep one thing in mind NEW MEMORIES ALWAYS REPLACE THE OLD ONE.We are human beings who seek fun and entertainment now in present situation, what might had happened in past is now a memory i am not getting happy by only seeing my past memories, we always see how to enjoy in our present situation.
A very well written post!!
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