Does True Love Really Exist

Am i in love❤ , Does True love Really exists ? Is it true what they say ,that if you are in love your partners fart smell like Gucci perfume .How to know if  i am in true love or not ? fucked up ??

Namaste everyone!!

Today we are going to talk about soulmates illusion. what is the soulmates illusion?. most of the people asked me that does love exists or does true love exists?, what are my thoughts on love etc etc. people are like i am really in love with this girl , i am never gonna find any one else like her , please help me find her, please help me to get her, blah blah blah .alright now the thing is what i am going to talk about is that how the idea of true love is a false one, that social conditioning,or media or bollywood or hollywood or fairy tails have infused your mind with ,alright and how it does not really exist!!

Soul mate illusion is all about one perfect partner being out there, for everyone in this world and hoping that you know you just find that person and once you find that person, that everything in life will be amazing, everything will be unicorns and roses and your farts will smell like a gucci perfume and shit like that , alright!!

but the truth of the matter is that there is not anyone special person for everybody in this world . why? because human beings are fucked up creatures and everybody brings a certain set of problems with them .so what happens lot of people start dating and get into the relation with somebody with the idea that oo you know this is going to be the perfect person and i have this checklist that he is going to be like this,he is gonna be like that or she is gonna be this and she's gonna be like that and what happens is , which is also started happening in India , and its a kind of trickle down from the western culture no need to blame the west , globalisation blah blah blah .

where Indians have started adopting you know more of the kind of practices that we have in the west but basically , the one thing i called fuck it attitude and the fuck it attitude is you know when you start seeing a little bit of bumps in your relationship or  few science that show that may be he is not my perfect soulmate , his farts did't smell like gucci perfume and than people say fuck it, and they move on to somebody else and than they say fuck it to that person and then they move on to somebody else and like this again and again.

Now the thing is when you practice that fucking attitude , it is basically you are trading one side of problems with other side of problems because nobody is fucking perfect . and what i mean by nobody is fucking perfect is that no relationship is never gonna be perfect . don't expect to be with somebody and expect same amount of sexual desire  your fantacy or your infatuation level that is to be same as they were in the beginning of the relationship.

What is the meaning of true love according to me ?

The thing is it is incredibly easy to fall in love ,alright i can fall in love with my own d**k right know , i can fall in love with my own ass right know , i can fall in love with you right know , i can fall in love with the world right now, falling in love is very easy its all about just fantasizing , just thinking about  this one thing again and again ,getting obsessed with it , getting infatuated with it . what is actually difficult is staying in love .

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Getting through the challenges,the road blocks , the social pressures, the issues with your particular social network, like so many fucking things which come in the way of you loving somebody else, various kinds of pressures beat family beat work beat studies beat whatever the fuck it is , the actual challenging part and the one place where the true love gets distinguished from this bullshit𒇞 love,in which  you fall in every second year ,is are you going to be able to stick it through and actually stay in love with that person ,alright!
the one point where you say i am gonna stop with that fucking attitude and i am gonna put up with somebody , see i am not saying that you should put up with somebody  who is a serial killer , i am not saying you to put up with somebody who is farting on your face or the shit like that, i am not saying that .but i'm saying not hoping for that one perfect partner alright! that one perfect person who is like the solution to the all of your life problems , basically a rescuer a whom with we can fully be ourselves and they will accept us no matter what we are ,because that does not exist. basically whats my idea about what love is i am gonna leave you off with a little tip.

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what i am gonna tell you is that ultimately you need to understand that love originally started off because of attraction, so attraction was the foundation for the love , now the thing is people think that they can be fully themselves and or whatever the fuck they want , with this one person whom they are hoping to be there perfect soulmate what happens is that you might stop doing the things , stop exhibiting the behaviours that originally attracted the other person towards you when you firstly encounter with them . such as a girl having a nice body, than after marriage or after getting into long term relationship just letting herself go and becoming fat .or a guy who used to focus work hard and be ambitious because he knew  more he succeeds in life the better the women he attracts and than he kind of becomes complace and because now he has got a girl and  he did't have to work hard anymore .
now you need to realize that they fell in love with the person whom they were attracted to in the beginning DON'T STOP BEING THAT FUCKING PERSON . Continue maintaining those traits , do open up more be more vulnerable to the other person, share more , cry together , laugh together do all those things but do not stop doing whatever it was that attracted the other person in the first case , alright!

Always remember one thing

 


If you guys are interested more in learning about how actually you can true'ly love person as well as let them discover the real value in you love you, especially if you want to discuss anything drop a comment below , i will try to answer them all .